If you need some tips to choosing the perfect wedding dress, here are some you might not have considered.
Finding the Right Fit: How Many Wedding Dresses Should I Try?
Wedding dress shopping is one of the most exciting parts of planning your big day — but it can also feel overwhelming. Many brides wonder: How many wedding dresses should I try on before I find “the one”? This guide will help you navigate the process, save time, and make confident decisions.
How Many Wedding Dresses Should You Try On?
Every bride’s journey is unique, but a practical approach is key. If you tend to struggle with decisions, set a personal limit on the number of wedding gowns you try — for example, a maximum of eight wedding dresses per bridal boutique. This helps you focus on styles that truly fit your vision without getting overwhelmed.
When trying on wedding dresses, seek guidance from the bridal consultant. Try on different silhouettes like A-line, ball gown, mermaid, or sheath to quickly rule out styles that don’t flatter your figure.
A common question from brides is “Does my wedding dress have to be white or ivory?” These are traditional wedding dress colours but that doesn’t mean you have to choose them. Many brides to be choose coloured wedding dresses, it’s totally up to you. Just be aware how your wedding dress colours may influence your wedding colour scheme, and your choices for bridesmaids’ dresses etc.
If you’re planning an eco-friendly wedding why not download my free guide to see advice about eco-friendly wedding dress materials. You can get the download here
Why Trying on Too Many Wedding Dresses Can Be Overwhelming
Trying on dozens of wedding dresses can lead to confusion and fatigue. Don’t feel pressured to make a decision on the spot. Instead:
• Take photos of each dress you like to review later.
• Bring a trusted friend or family member for honest feedback.
• Take time between appointments to reflect on your options.
Should You Visit Multiple Bridal Shops?
There are pros and cons to shopping at multiple bridal boutiques:
• Advantages: Access to a wider variety of designers and styles.
• Disadvantages: More appointments, travel, and decision fatigue.
If you prefer fewer trips, consider a bridal shop that carries multiple designers to maximize your eddibg dress options in one visit.
Can You Keep Trying Dresses After Purchasing Your Wedding Gown?
Generally, once you’ve chosen your wedding dress, it’s best to stop searching. Continuing to look at new styles or browsing Pinterest can create doubt.
If you feel unsure, try on your dress again or discuss your concerns with your bridal consultant — but changing your mind should be a last resort to avoid unnecessary stress.
Tips for a Smooth Wedding Dress Shopping Experience
1. Do Your Research: Look up wedding dress styles you like and identify which bridal shops carry them.
2. Limit Your Bridal Party: Bring only a small, trusted group for honest opinions — too many voices can complicate decisions.
3. Try Accessories: Veils, belts, sleeves, and jackets can transform a dress’s look.
4. Plan Your Timeline: Aim to buy your dress 9 to 12 months before your wedding to allow time for delivery and alterations.
5. Trust Your Instincts: Choose the dress that feels right, even if it’s not what you initially imagined.
Remember to prioritise a seasonal wedding dress. You might be buying your dress in the winter although you’ll be having a summer wedding. If you want tips on how to choose a summer wedding dress that will keep you cool, even during a heatwave then check out my recent blog here
Planning a Summer Wedding During a Heatwave: 10 Essential Tips for a Cool & Comfortable Celebration.
Final Thoughts: How Many Wedding Dresses Should You Try?
To recap, the ideal number varies per bride, but trying 5 to 10 dresses total is a good rule of thumb. Set a limit to avoid decision fatigue and focus on the styles that make you feel beautiful and confident.
By planning ahead, staying organized, and trusting your intuition, wedding dress shopping can be a joyful, memorable part of your wedding journey.
If you have any questions about this, your wedding day, or my services as a wedding celebrant and wedding host/MC then feel free to contact me here
About the author
I’m Amanda a modern celebrant who helps couples have the ceremony they deserve with real freedom of choice and personalisation.
As a friendly award-winning celebrant, you’ll be guaranteed of a professional and stress-free approach to your big day.
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